You want to know what a man really loves, where his affections really are, then look at his bank statements. You do not have the maturity to carry the weight of the love, honour and devotion of a young woman, a precious daughter and someones deeply loved wife if you cannot manage your resources.
Do you want to be counted wise, to build a reputation for wisdom? Here’s what you do: live well, love wisely, live humbly. It’s the way you live, not the way you talk, that counts. James 3:13